What does Genesis 31:4 mean?
Jacob is aware that Laban's sons are grumbling against him and that he has lost Laban's favor. In addition, the Lord has just told Jacob to leave and return to the Promised Land of Canaan. It's finally time for Jacob to go back home (Genesis 28:1–5).Jacob does not return home to begin making arrangements to pack up his enormous family and possessions and move out. Instead, he calls his wives to come to him in the field, away from home. Perhaps he wants to assure that their conversation will be private. He will definitely seek their support in leaving their own father and brothers and homeland very quickly and with little warning.
In the following verses, Jacob will make his case for why they must go now.