What does Genesis 33:9 mean?
Esau initially rejects Jacob's enormous gift of five herds of animals. He insists that he is not poor. He has enough. He tells Jacob to keep what he has. In this era, when giving gifts, it might have been considered polite to initially "refuse" to accept. In other words, to honor the giver by speaking of the gift as "too much." At the same time, it would have been considered deeply offensive to actually reject the present, or for the giver to rescind the offer.Part of Jacob's motivation might be a sense of guilt. Years before, he had stolen Esau's blessing from their father, Isaac (Genesis 27:19). Esau's fate was something less glamorous than that of his conniving twin (Genesis 27:38–40). In the upcoming verses, Jacob will use Hebrew language implying that he wants to share his blessing with his brother.