What does Genesis 34:5 mean?
Jacob hears news of his daughter's rape at the hands of the son of the ruler of the city (Genesis 34:1–4). What will this father do? We might like to see him fly into action to avenge her and make this right. Jacob has repeatedly demonstrated, however, that quick and forceful action is not his way. His pattern is to consider all angles and make a careful, often crafty plan to respond to any difficult situation.So Jacob's first response is to do nothing for the moment. He will wait for his sons to return from tending the livestock in the fields. That deference carries over, however, and it will be Jacob's sons who choose the aftermath.
Does Jacob's passiveness reveal he does not care very deeply for Dinah? Is it because she is the daughter of Leah, not Jacob's favored wife, Rachel? That's not entirely impossible, since Jacob has shown preferences before (Genesis 33:1–3). Or, is Jacob merely waiting to have the full strength of his family before acting? Is he already planning on doing nothing, out of fear of the other people in this area? Scripture is short on details here, so we can't know for certain what thoughts are in Jacob's mind.
Whatever his plan is—or was—Jacob's sons will not be impressed with his inaction.