What does Luke 7:32 mean?
Verses 32, 33, and 34 present an interesting challenge in interpretation. Some see a chiasm: a pyramid-like expression of ideas mirrored around a central point. This would connect the flute players to Jesus (Luke 7:34) and the dirge singers to John the Baptist (Luke 7:33); the religious leaders reject both. That Matthew does not include the text found in 7:29–30 also leads some to interpret the passage this way. However, this does not seem to match the intent of the writer.The "children" are "the people of this generation" (Luke 7:31). Specifically, this means the "Pharisees and the lawyers" (Luke 7:30), but also ultimately every respectable Jew who does not recognize they are a sinner and, therefore, rejects John's call to repent. The Pharisees and the lawyers sit in the marketplace, dictating what proper worship looks like: more celebratory than John and more rigid than Jesus. They condemn both Jesus and John for rejecting their direction (Luke 7:33–34).
The part about the flute is included in Aesop's fable The Fisherman Piping. A fisherman played a flute in hopes the fish would be attracted to the music. When that didn't work, he put down his nets and the fish jumped right in. He said, "You wouldn't dance when I piped: but now I've stopped, you can do nothing else!"
The part about the dirge is very poignant considering Luke's previous story (Luke 7:11–17). As Jesus and His followers entered the city of Nain, they crossed paths with a funeral procession for the only son of a widow. Culturally, Jesus' group should have turned around and joined the procession. But Jesus didn't have to. He is God, the creator of the world, and He has the power to raise the dead—so He did. Indeed, the religious leaders may play a dirge, but Jesus—and His followers—do not have to "grieve as others do who have no hope" (1 Thessalonians 4:13).