What does Matthew 22:4 mean?
Jesus' parable has taken a surprising turn. The central event is special, but not uncommon: a king throws a great wedding feast for his son. Usually, this raises the question of who will be allowed to attend. Shockingly, in this case, those invited refused to come (Matthew 22:3).So, the king sends out another group of servants with a better description of what those invited can expect to find at the feast. The dinner is ready! The king has slaughtered his own royal oxen and fattened calves to serve to his guests. In other words, the king has gone to great lengths to make sure this will be a meal for the ages, a great party, a fantastic time. This is special.
Despite offering good reasons to attend the great banquet, however, the king has also told this groups of servants to deliver the invitation as a command: "Come to the wedding feast." There is benefit and blessing involved, but ignoring the invitation is to defy the clear will of the king.
And yet, in this parable, the invited guests still will not come.