What does Philemon 1:20 mean?
Paul calls Philemon his "brother." This same word is also used in this letter in reference to Timothy (Philemon 1:1), Onesimus (Philemon 1:16), and now twice of Philemon (Philemon 1:7, 20). All of these men were to be seen as equals, as brothers in Christ.Paul is directly asking for a benefit from Philemon. Paul was not asking for money, but rather a "yes" to his request regarding Onesimus. Philemon was to both forgive Onesimus and free him from his role as bondservant. The "heart" was already mentioned in verse 7, which described how Philemon's actions refreshed the hearts of the Christians of Colossae. Paul also called Onesimus his "very heart" (Philemon 1:12). Philemon now had the opportunity to personally refresh Paul's heart, by granting his request.