What does Proverbs 18:12 mean?
An earlier proverb (Proverbs 16:18) warned about arrogant, self-assured pride setting a person up for the shock of brutal reality. A similar statement was also made in Proverbs 11:2. This completes a trio of verses (Proverbs 18:10–11) which helps the reader correctly assign priorities. God is our only infallible source of strength. Money and personal vanity cannot give us those assurances.In contrast to arrogance, which sets up a person for failure, humility creates the best conditions for success. Life is uncertain, so no effort is guaranteed to succeed (James 4:13–16). Yet those who humbly seek God's will (Proverbs 1:7; 3:35) and the advice of others (Proverbs 11:14; 18:13, 15, 17) are more likely to achieve their goals.
The apostle Peter learned the truth of Solomon's words. He made a brash, prideful promise to the Lord: that he would never forsake Him even if others did (John 13:36–38). His pride betrayed him. He fled when Jesus was arrested (Matthew 26:56) and denied knowing Him to a servant girl and others in the high priest's courtyard who asked (John 18:15–18, 25–27). After Jesus restored Peter following the resurrection, Peter put aside personal pride (John 21:15–19). Yet even as an apostle, Peter sometimes struggled with image and reputation (Galatians 2:11–14).
Paul advised Timothy not to appoint newly converted men to positions of spiritual authority. His concern was that power without trained discernment (Hebrews 5:14) could lead such a person to "become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil" (1 Timothy 3:6). To the contrary, the Lord will honor a humble person. James 4:10 exhorts: "Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you." The counsel of the world is to put yourself ahead of others. Scripture commands a believer to put themselves humbly at the Lord's disposal in the service of others (Philippians 2:3).