What does Proverbs 19:11 mean?
There is a strong correlation between godly wisdom (Proverbs 1:7; 8:35–36) and the ability to think before one reacts (Proverbs 18:17; 19:2). This proverb notes that it's far more honorable to ignore insults than to overreact to them. Instead of escalating a situation, the wise person defuses it by remaining calm (Proverbs 15:1). When someone is easily angered, they allow others to control them; the self-controlled person doesn't let others bait them into a fight. The need to control one's temper is a frequent subject of Solomon's proverbs (Proverbs 14:29; 15:18; 16:32; 19:19; 22:24; 29:11).The apostle Paul writes in Romans 12:17: "Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all." He continues by saying: "Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord'" (Romans 12:19). In addition, Paul advocates treating an offender kindly (Romans 12:20), and concludes, "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:21). Instead of taking matters into one's own hand, an offended person should leave matters of vengeance to the Lord.
Proverbs 19:8–21 continues Solomon's observations about wisdom and foolishness, a king's wrath, household turmoil, and human plans as compared to divine sovereignty. A theme of these proverbs is the danger of ignoring godly wisdom, while placing too much reliance on one's own ability. A wise person is prudent, diligent, and honest. At the same time, wisdom means realizing that not all plans work out.
Several themes are associated with these statements. Among them are the idea that personal integrity is worth much more than earthly wealth or success. Solomon discusses the unfortunate habit of favoring the rich and dismissing the poor, while commending those who care for the unfortunate. Many references are made to the consequences of foolish behavior, including the shame and punishment such things can bring.
