What does Proverbs 23:22 mean?
This kind of plea occurs often in the book of Proverbs (Proverbs 1:8; 4:1; 13:1; 19:20). Parents know how prone children are to go their own way, even when it's unwise. Godly parenting requires patience, consistency, and love, as well as firmness and reasonable discipline. Loving mothers and fathers instruct their children in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Proverbs 1:7; Ephesians 6:4). This requires the parents to know God's Word, themselves. Deuteronomy 6:7 commands parents to demonstrate their own love for God's teaching. The verse calls upon parents to teach the statutes and rules diligently to their children at home, outdoors, at bedtime, and first thing in the morning.Solomon also urges proper respect for older parents. The term "despise," as used here, implies scorn and derision, and might also be translated as "disdain." As parents age, it's easy to become frustrated with or dismissive of them. Yet God commands us to honor parents (Exodus 20:12; Ephesians 6:1–3). Those "who gave you life" shouldn't be cast aside when they become old.