What does Proverbs 26:22 mean?
In modern English, bits of gossip are described as "juicy," suggesting they are especially tempting. Gossip is one of the sins to which almost all people are naturally tempted (Proverbs 11:13; 16:28). The idea of learning some secret, scandalous information about others is alluring. However, it's also spiritually deadly and a source of intense conflict. A person doesn't simply hear the words; engaging in gossip has a deeper effect. What has a sweet taste, at first, can lead to bitter consequences. This proverb is identical to the statement given in Proverbs 18:8.Paul warned Timothy about the temptation for inappropriate talk, cautioning Timothy not to enroll young widows in the church's role of widows in part because "they learn to be idlers…[and] also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not" (1 Timothy 5:13). He recommended that applying oneself to productive tasks was an effective way to avoid being tempted by gossip (1 Timothy 5:14). Gossip can ruin a person's reputation—whether as the victim, the teller, or the willing hearer. Gossip and slander disrupt fellowship within a church.
However, gossip is not self-replicating. If others refuse to listen, let alone to repeat it, it will die like a fire starved for fuel (Proverbs 26:20). If a fellow Christian has done something inappropriate, instead of spreading shocking news, Paul writes: "You who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted" (Galatians 6:1).