What does Proverbs 31:7 mean?

This passage implies that alcohol's numbing effects are best reserved for the dying or those in extreme agony (Proverbs 31:6). Kings and rulers, who need their wits about them, are cautioned to avoid it (Proverbs 31:4–5). In this context, this may emphasize the warning about how inappropriate drunkenness is for a king. Perhaps Lemuel's mother is saying that those who feel helpless may drink to forget their condition, but leaders should never do so.

Depending on how one interprets the lesson, this could be seen as a justification for anesthetics and end-of-life comfort medicines. Giving intoxicating drink would then be presented as an act of mercy for those beyond earthly hope. This would harmonize with the command for kings to care for the needs of the weak and helpless (Proverbs 31:8-–9). As One who lived a fully human life, Jesus Christ understands what it means to be poor and afflicted, inviting believers to be confident as they come to Him in prayer (Hebrews 4:15–16). As our heavenly Father's children, we should be merciful.

Everything God has made can be used for some good purpose (1 Timothy 4:4). Lemuel's mother may have meant this as an appeal for compassion on the dying, or to continue a warning against leaders drinking. In either case, we should minister compassionately to those who are hurting and passing away. Luke 6:36 commands: "Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful."