What does 2 Samuel 12:3 mean?
ESV: but the poor man had nothing but one little ewe lamb, which he had bought. And he brought it up, and it grew up with him and with his children. It used to eat of his morsel and drink from his cup and lie in his arms, and it was like a daughter to him.
NIV: but the poor man had nothing except one little ewe lamb he had bought. He raised it, and it grew up with him and his children. It shared his food, drank from his cup and even slept in his arms. It was like a daughter to him.
NASB: But the poor man had nothing at all except one little ewe lamb Which he bought and nurtured; And it grew up together with him and his children. It would eat scraps from him and drink from his cup and lie in his lap, And was like a daughter to him.
CSB: but the poor man had nothing except one small ewe lamb that he had bought. He raised her, and she grew up with him and with his children. From his meager food she would eat, from his cup she would drink, and in his arms she would sleep. She was like a daughter to him.
NLT: The poor man owned nothing but one little lamb he had bought. He raised that little lamb, and it grew up with his children. It ate from the man’s own plate and drank from his cup. He cuddled it in his arms like a baby daughter.
KJV: But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.
NKJV: But the poor man had nothing, except one little ewe lamb which he had bought and nourished; and it grew up together with him and with his children. It ate of his own food and drank from his own cup and lay in his bosom; and it was like a daughter to him.
Verse Commentary:
Nathan is telling David a simple story. Sometimes plain stories are the most compelling. Nathan has probably intentionally not told David that this is a parable. David assumes his advisor is reporting on actual events that have taken place in his kingdom. Nathan introduced two men, one rich in flocks of sheep and herds of cattle. The other man, described in this verse, is poor and owns just one small female lamb that lives with his family as their much-loved pet (2 Samuel 12:1–2).
As the story progresses, the rich man has an unexpected visitor. Rather than taking from his own livestock, the rich man steals the poor man's lamb, kills her, and cooks her for their meal (2 Samuel 12:4). The poor man is defenseless and heartbroken. He's been robbed of what he loved by someone who already had more than they needed.
David spent years watching over sheep, caring for them, and protecting them from lions and bears (1 Samuel 17:34–36). His skills as a warrior grew within the context of defending the defenseless. The thought that a lamb would be so cruelly used awakens every protective instinct David has (2 Samuel 12:5–6). That makes it even more devastating when Nathan reveals that David is the rich man. He stole Bathsheba when he had more than enough women. He took Uriah's greatest treasure. And then he murdered Uriah (2 Samuel 12:7–8).
Even worse, David sinned against the God he claimed to love more than anything else (2 Samuel 12:9).
Verse Context:
Second Samuel 12:1–6 exposes King David's hypocrisy. He slept with Bathsheba, murdered her husband, and married her to cover her pregnancy. He thinks no one of consequence knows the truth. He's forgotten about God. God sends a prophet, Nathan, to confront David with his sin. Nathan tells David a parable comparing the king to a rich man who steals a poor man's beloved lamb for dinner. David was a shepherd and he's outraged. Then Nathan reveals that David is the rich man and God's judgment is coming (2 Samuel 12:7–14).
Chapter Summary:
In 2 Samuel 12, David learns the consequences of his sins against Bathsheba and Uriah (2 Samuel 11). David thought no one of consequence knew what he'd done. Nathan the prophet reveals that God knows; the Lord demands justice for David's victims. David's household will rebel, and Bathsheba's son will die. David humbly repents, and Bathsheba later conceives Solomon, the future king. Joab, about to defeat the Ammonites, calls David to finish the fight. In 2 Samuel 13, the seeds of the promised rebellion are sown. Psalm 51 is David's expression of remorse for his sins.
Chapter Context:
David begins to lose control of his seemingly perfect situation. While the respected soldier Uriah was fighting Ammonites with Joab (2 Samuel 10), David slept with Uriah's wife, Bathsheba. To cover her pregnancy, David arranged for Uriah to die in battle (2 Samuel 11). Nathan, the prophet, confronts David over his crimes. God takes the child's life and will allow David's household to rebel against him. This begins when David's son rapes his own half-sister, Tamar (2 Samuel 13), starting a series of events that will result in another son, Absalom, taking the throne from his father (2 Samuel 14—16).
Book Summary:
Second Samuel continues the story of David, who will become king over Judah. The other tribes of Israel are resistant, eventually sparking a civil war. David wins and makes Jerusalem his capital. Early success is followed by moral failure and controversy in David's house. The book of 1 Kings will begin by detailing David's decline and death.
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