What does 2 Samuel 19:42 mean?
ESV: All the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, "Because the king is our close relative. Why then are you angry over this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king 's expense? Or has he given us any gift?"
NIV: All the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, "We did this because the king is closely related to us. Why are you angry about it? Have we eaten any of the king’s provisions? Have we taken anything for ourselves?"
NASB: Then all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, 'Because the king is a close relative to us. Why then are you angry about this matter? Have we eaten at all at the king’s expense, or has anything been taken for us?'
CSB: All the men of Judah responded to the men of Israel, "Because the king is our relative. Why does this make you angry? Have we ever eaten anything of the king’s or been honored at all?"
NLT: The men of Judah replied, 'The king is one of our own kinsmen. Why should this make you angry? We haven’t eaten any of the king’s food or received any special favors!'
KJV: And all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, Because the king is near of kin to us: wherefore then be ye angry for this matter? have we eaten at all of the king's cost? or hath he given us any gift?
NKJV: So all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because the king is a close relative of ours. Why then are you angry over this matter? Have we ever eaten at the king’s expense? Or has he given us any gift?”
Verse Commentary:
Verse Context:
Second Samuel 19:41–43 is filled with hypocrisy. David's son Absalom convinced the tribes to make him king (2 Samuel 15:1–6). Despite their smaller numbers, David's forces won easily (2 Samuel 18:9–10). The elders of "Israel"—the ten northern tribes—argued about what to do but eventually reaffirmed their fealty to David (2 Samuel 19:9–10). Meanwhile, David shamed Judah into welcoming him home (2 Samuel 19:11–15). Now, Israel and Judah argue over who loves David, the king they rebelled against, more. Before long, Israel will join a new and very short rebellion (2 Samuel 20:1–2).
Chapter Summary:
David comes home after a tragic and costly rebellion. His son Absalom is dead, and rebel fighters have fled back home (2 Samuel 18). David falls into self-indulgent grief until Joab reminds him of his soldiers' honor. On the journey back to the Jordan, David reconciles with Shimei, Mephibosheth, and the elders of Judah, and blesses Barzillai. The elders of the northern tribes arrive and argue with Judah over who loves the king more—the king they tried to kill. The first chance they get, the men from Israel leave and try to start another rebellion (2 Samuel 20:1–2).
Chapter Context:
David's son, Absalom, manipulated the elders of the tribes, convincing them that he would make a better king than David (2 Samuel 15—17). During the one-day civil war, Joab killed Absalom, against David's orders (2 Samuel 18). David falls into a very public expression of mourning until Joab tells him to honor his living servants, not his dead, traitorous son. On the way to Jerusalem, David tries to forgive his enemies. The elders of Israel claim to welcome him back. But after squabbling with the elders from Judah, they join a new rebellion (2 Samuel 10:1–2).
Book Summary:
Second Samuel continues the story of David, who will become king over Judah. The other tribes of Israel are resistant, eventually sparking a civil war. David wins and makes Jerusalem his capital. Early success is followed by moral failure and controversy in David's house. The book of 1 Kings will begin by detailing David's decline and death.
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