What does Proverbs 26:4 mean?
ESV: Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself.
NIV: Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be just like him.
NASB: Do not answer a fool according to his foolishness, Or you will also be like him.
CSB: Don't answer a fool according to his foolishness or you'll be like him yourself.
NLT: Don’t answer the foolish arguments of fools, or you will become as foolish as they are.
KJV: Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him.
NKJV: Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him.
Verse Commentary:
This half of a two-part lesson (Proverbs 26:5) uses the phrase "according to" to mean "in the manner of." It's unwise to imitate a foolish person's attitude, mannerisms, or approach. A related modern English proverb advises, "don't wrestle with pigs, since you only get dirty and the pig enjoys it." In the book of Proverbs, "foolishness" means rejection of God and His truth (Proverbs 1:7). Insults, lies, tricks, anger, pettiness, and other things are foolish and should not be imitated. Being dragged down to that level is neither sensible, nor godly.

Jesus answered many questions, sometimes reflecting the style of the one asking (Matthew 12:1–8; 19:21; John 3:10; 4:16). However, Jesus did not respond to petty insults with insults, or to lies with lies. When His critics were unfair or unkind, Jesus could be firm—even forceful (John 9:40–41; Matthew 22:18). Yet He did not use the same foolish tactics as those who attacked Him. Nor did He bother to answer when the question, itself, was insincere. When Herod tried to coerce Jesus into performing a miracle Jesus refused to respond at all (Luke 23:8–9). Herod didn't need a sign to prove Jesus was the Son of God. His questioning was shallow and mocking.

Verses 4 and 5 seem like contradictory statements. And, in fact, they do suggest opposite actions. However, the context of each is subtly different; the intended lesson is about when to speak and when to remain silent. In fact, it's possible to think of them as two halves of a single proverb. This pair of statements provides an excellent example of Scripture presenting tension between two extremes. Careless reading—especially out of context—can interpret these as contradictions. Here, of course, the phrases are written together, making their intended meaning easier to untangle.

Another way to distinguish verses 4 and 5 is noting that there is a difference between giving an answer "to" foolishness, as opposed to giving an answer "in" foolishness. To correct something using wisdom is good; to imitate something unwise is not.
Verse Context:
Proverbs 26:1–12 is mostly a series of blunt, negative remarks about a "fool;" the word appears in all but one verse. In the book of Proverbs, a "fool" is one who rejects godly wisdom (Proverbs 1:7). The segment also includes a famous pair of statements which seem contradictory. Since verses 4 and 5 are written side-by-side, the implication is that there are times where one approach or the other is best. Generally, those who ignore God's truth (Proverbs 8:34–36) are dangerous and unreliable.
Chapter Summary:
This chapter includes three main sections. The first repeatedly refers to a "fool," meaning someone lacking godly wisdom (Proverbs 1:7). The second warns against being lazy. The third condemns careless conflict, lying, and warns about those who disguise their hate with words. Several statements in this passage repeat or echo others made in the book of Proverbs.
Chapter Context:
Chapter 25 introduced another section of Solomon's proverbs (Proverbs 25:1). These were collected by later scribes; the list runs through the end of chapter 29. This chapter covers topics such as foolishness, laziness, and conflict. This echoes principles given in other proverbs.
Book Summary:
Proverbs is best understood in context with the books of Ecclesiastes and Job. In Proverbs, “wisdom” is given in short, simple, general terms. Ecclesiastes represents wisdom based on observation and experience. This often shows how the general principles of the book of Proverbs don’t apply in absolutely every circumstance. Job represents wisdom based on the experience of suffering and injustice. All three come to the conclusion that God does indeed know best, and the most sensible course of action is to follow His will.
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